Everyone made mistakes you know :)

Everyone made mistakes. One or two. I do too, I made mistakes, tons of it. And today my friend shared her biggest mistake and it's also her deepest secret. I give her my respect for bravely admitted that:

"I made mistakes and one of them is a terrible mistake, I'm not a perfect human but everyone made theirs too so I'm just gonna pass it. I regret it of course, but you know, life must go on.".

When hearing her admitted that she did things, well, it comes straightly to my mind that I'm not better than her either. I'm a lot worse, I think. I did things too, horrible things. And until this very second I can't tell anyone about it. I just can't. I'm not as brave as my friend about being honest of our mistake. I'm keeping my secret in a tiny little box and I put it deep into the ground where no one can ever find it. Ever.

No, I don't judge her for what she did because who am I to judge? It's her life and it's none of my business. As a friend I'm just gonna give her a pat in her back saying "it's okay, we're just human and humans make mistakes". And I know I did judge someone, perhaps more than one person for their mistake and I'm so sorry for that. I'm just a human who made a lot of mistakes but I'm working on it now.

But then again it's a brave thing to do to admit to someone else that you made mistake, because it means that you're admit you're not perfect which is something that people always want us to be. If you can't do it, well, at least admit it to yourself. Like I did today to myself. It's okay we're just human and humans make mistakes. 

Your mistakes would be like a huge dark spot in your past, like a night sky where there is no stars and moon, just a big black empty sky. But you do have to remember, it's not going to be a night forever, in the morning the sun will rise and lit up the darkness. So does your life :)